Is Modesty Worth It?

(Note: The topic of modesty may seem always directed exclusively at girls, but this blog post is written for both girls AND boys. Modesty really applies to both despite common misconception on that subject at times. Also, I'm not pointing this post out to anyone at all in particular; I'm simply bringing the subject up, and also just saying, that I do not judge others on how they dress, ever. Its always great to strive for modesty in how we act and dress, but passing judgment on others isn't acceptable just because how they dress. Just clarifying for all you beautiful peeps! =D)
Modesty IS hard. No doubt about it, modesty's hard and gets exceptionally tough at times, growing up in our teenage years in a society and culture that believes anything that feels good should be done, and "if you've got it, flaunt it." Yes, I've heard various radical feminists say just that! Because they view the body as something to show off and nothing more, perhaps.
The question that may often arise in our heads is, is modesty, trying our best to keep pure, really worth it? If you want to attract the right guy (or girl) it really is. Wearing something that's revealing while at the same time hoping a Christian, godly guy (or girl) to single you out is expecting far too much. If you want a Christian, loving, respectful, good person for your future spouse, dressing and acting modestly is the first step towards attracting someone like that to you.
Additionally, modesty is not simply dressing in a fashion that covers up what shouldn't be seen. Its a frame of mind, thought of heart, and way of life. If your actions, words, and how you act around others reflect how you modestly dress, then you're truly being modest and genuine about it. Remember always, that the number one reason you are choosing to make decisions in favor of modesty is because its what God wants. All the other reasons come after.
Sadly to say, not everyone will accept your fashion or modesty trends (most especially if you suddenly decide to adapt them!). In fact, some people may think you're crazy and socially out of the norm for them. For example, I've been made fun of for wearing a one-piece swimsuit. As a girl, if you decide to halt the bikini wearing and go for more modest looks (personally I like tankinis the most!) a lot of peers might think you're overdoing the modesty thing. And guys who wear shirts with swim trunks will probably be made fun of, too. But its easier to go through things like that knowing you're doing what God wishes, and staying true to yourself. Wearing clothes that don't flaunt and show off your body just means you're confident enough around others not to have to show off your body to be happy and satisfied with yourself. It will actually make a statement to your peers, and more importantly than being "cool," you will be respected.
Also to quickly note, modesty (in this example as a girl) does not mean you're wearing a black turtleneck sweater with an unfashionable skirt down to your ankles. NOT AT ALL. Modesty can and usually is quite fashionable! Its really easy to combine many trendy looks with modesty intertwined. ;)
Hopefully this post encouraged you in your decision to be godly and respect your own body enough to not have to flaunt it in front of others for attention, to fit in, or whatever other reasons you may have. In fact, googling the word "flaunt", defines it as: "display (ing) (something) ostentatiously [pretenious or showy way to impress] especially in order to provoke envy or admiration or to show defiance." What Christian or virtous person wants to do that any way with their body?! I personally don't want to incite envy and admiration in a showy, pretenious way with others! :P I'd feel bad about myself and doing this to others. So before choosing an outfit to buy or wear, or deciding on a way to act, ask yourself if its appropriate first. You're then already well on your way to acting and dressing modestly as God would wish you to do. ;)
God bless you, girls AND guys! Don't forget if you ever need extra encouragement, or just someone to talk to, you are more than welcome to private message me! :)

Lots of love from the heart,
~Veroni